God’s love is mandatory (Philippians 2:10). Love Him or be put to death (Jude 1:5). You are required to accept Him as the one who saves you from what He will do to you. And what he will do to you if you don’t allow Him to save you from Him is pretty brutal (Matthew 15:41). In fact, He commands all of His followers to enforce His love even while here on Earth (Deuteronomy 17:12-13, Mark 6:11).
Praise Him (or else).
Now thank God for saving you from His wrath. He’s only so aggressively affectionate because He knows what will happen to you if you don’t worship Him. He invented the punishment, so He knows how terrible it would be for you to not be saved by Him. And that would totally be your fault now wouldn’t it?